The 1974 Disappearance of my Aunt Laurie Partridge

Today marks 44 years since the disappearance of Laurie Partridge from Spokane, Washington on Dec. 4, 1974. If you know me personally you know I’m a volunteer advocate for missing people and their families and you likely know my Aunt’s story.  My Mother Kimberly, comes from a family of six kids she is the 4th Partridge kid. The oldest being her sister Laurie Partridge, her birth name was actually Laura but everyone knows her as Laurie, a name she chose to go by (not many people know this about her). I never got to meet my Aunt Laurie, as my Mom was 10-years-old when her sister went missing. Growing up, my mother would talk to my brothers and I  about Laurie’s abduction, it was very difficult back then for  Mom to talk about, and it still is today she still can’t talk about her without crying. It is difficult for all the surviving family members to talk about.

My Granny died in 2004, never finding out what happened or getting answers for what happened to her beloved oldest daughter.  My Grandpa is alive at 91 years old, he has waited all these years for answers. With hope to someday find justice for his daughter, holding the perpetrator accountable providing they are still alive and give his daughter a proper burial, it’s what we all want. Some people have asked us how we can say we know she is deceased, without knowing for sure? She has never been found, nor her body or bones, no confessions, no trace. How can we say that?? We have no other choice but to believe that. Laurie would not have run away, her family knows this and its unlikely that she has been held captive for over 40 years. Until her remains are found and/ or someone comes forward, Laurie’s remaining living family lives in a painful unknowing emotional limbo. Another thing we have been told is we should “just put this behind us”, “she has been missing this long, why can’t we just forget about her and let it be?” Some people just won’t understand what its like to have a missing loved one unless they are in your shoes, and its a pain you would not want to wish on anyone… Also, some people are just plain insensitive. Most family of the missing cannot just “move on”. Laurie personally was a caring person, she would never have stopped looking if it was another family member who went missing. She is valuable we cannot give up hope that someday justice will prevail.

Being an advocate I have heard of these type of things being said to other families as well. My friend Robin, who’s mother Cloudia Leslie Wells is also missing, I work with her along with a team of volunteers at “Missing & Homeless” has been told “maybe she doesn’t want to be found” it infuriates her.

Laurie Lynn Partridge was born May 31, 1957  in Santa Monica, California she would be 61 years old. She was only 17 when she went missing. My Mom’s family moved from Fountain Valley, California to Spokane, Washington in 1974. Laurie was a member of the drill team and wrote for the school newspaper. She had many friends and a 20-year-old fiancé, they had plans to live on his families farm, care for animals and have many children, they both loved children. Laurie loved Jesus and enjoyed singing and playing her guitar she was known to play and sing for her younger siblings and neighborhood kids. My Mom has Laurie’s songbook, that Laurie had put together with her favorite songs she loved to play. As a child, I remember looking through Laurie’s songbook and, imagining what she was like. 

Laurie and her fiancé were very excited about their engagement and planned on picking out engagement rings on December 5th, but she went missing December 4th. 

Laurie left Joel E. Ferris High School about 12:30 p.m. She had cramps and wanted to leave early.  She called both her Mom and Dad who were each working and could not leave, they told her to stay and wait for the bus. With no one available to give her a ride, she decided to walk the two-plus miles home in the 5400 block of S. Custer Road, thinking it might ease her cramps. Laurie was reported missing after she failed to show up at home or for work that night at Lincoln Heights Theater. She was last seen by a neighbor walking South on Havana St. between 43rd and 49th Avenues.

The police initially and wrongly classified her disappearance as a runaway, even though her family insisted she would never run away. After she was reported missing Laurie’s father and second oldest child walked the route she would have walked to get home. They knocked on every neighbor’s door and spoke to anyone along the route that answered their door, or who they came across. They were able to build a timeline where Laurie was and the approx time she disappeared based on accounts of people who saw her walking by.

Laurie’s Dad had purchased two tickets to the Beach Boy’s Concert for her, the concert was scheduled for December 9, 1974 at the Spokane Coliseum. These tickets were in her purse at the time of her abduction. Laurie’s family begged for permission to check the ticket numbers of people coming in (her mom had the numbers written down). Police refused to let them, as they said it would hold up people getting into the concert. However, police did show up and “looked around” for Laurie. Later it was discovered that the tickets were used, because they were general seating and all tickets came in… But authorities were unable to determine who used them. It was the biggest lead they had.

Police and family also spoke to a witness who came forward in 1974. A teenage girl that was riding her horse around 4:15PM and spotted a man in his 40s-50s in a field holding a rifle standing with a girl who she thought looked like Laurie and she described the clothes as to what Laurie wore. They were standing in front of a vehicle described as a white truck with a van backend and a darker colored door. When the witness looked back the girl was no longer visible. This sighting was near the route Laurie last walked. When the witness arrived home, she told her mom what she saw, later that night they saw Laurie’s story on the local news, and contacted police. Nothing came of it.

Police also received reports about a Green Ford Pinto station wagon in the area possibly following Laurie and days later someone also contacted police and made a report that they believe they spotted the missing 17-year-old being held captive in the back of a pinto, these leads never went anywhere either.  There were a couple other tips that Laurie’s Dad and fiancé followed up on, including them driving to Idaho. Again nothing viable was found.

Laurie was very much loved by her family and when she was abducted it tore her family apart. Family DNA has been submitted by multiple family members to build a genetic profile in hope of identifying her if her remains are found. Several potential suspects were questioned by detectives; including serial killers Ted Bundy and Stanley Bernson. Hundreds of interviews and polygraphs were conducted, all were determined unsubstantiated. Bundy was determined to be in Utah at the time of her disappearance from his credit card receipts. Stanley Bernson was a traveling produce salesman who lived in Spokane and had a route close to where Laurie was abducted. My mom requested several times over the years to have detectives question him again, as he is still in prison for the abduction and murders of young women and suspected of killing several more. In July of this year, 2018 the detective on Laurie’s case drove out to Walla Walla where Bernson is incarcerated and questioned him again. He denied having any involvement in her disappearance. Her ex-boyfriend and fiancé were also extensively questioned, her fiance was never considered a suspect. 

Laurie had a brown mole on her right cheek. The clothing, she was described as wearing was a long, navy blue coat with a hood. A tan v-neck sweater and burgundy/tan plaid pants. Her shoes were faded blue oxford denim with a crepe sole. She carried a brown leather purse with a blue flower design and a braided shoulder strap. There is information on the internet and elsewhere stating that the contents of Laurie’s purse were found 2 days after her abduction. This is NOT TRUE, her purse or the contents of her purse were NEVER found, her family has verified this with detectives. 

* Laurie is featured on the Ace of Diamonds in Washington’s “cold case playing cards” that are used by the prison inmates. Through research I found as of 2016, the cards have resulted in approx 600 tips, many have proved useless, but the program is indeed considered a success as the cards have resulted in 9 cold cases being solved!*


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♥ ♥ ♥ Laurie Lynn Partridge ♥ ♥ ♥

Missing from Spokane, WA since Dec. 4, 1974
Last seen: Last seen walking home from school at 37th & Havana Streets on Spokane’s South Hill.

DOB: May 31, 1957 Age Missing: 17 …. Age Now: 61
Race: Caucasian/ white …. Hair Color: Blonde …. Eye Color: Blue
Height: 5’0″ …. Weight: 110 lbs

Agency Case # 74-120372
NCMEC # NCMC603391
NCIC # M-141589135
NamUs #MP6496




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ANYONE WITH INFORMATION CONTACT (You may remain anonymous) Spokane Crime Check (509) 456-2233 -OR- National Center for Missing & Exploited Children 1-800-843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST) -OR- The Tip Line at (509) 242-TIPS

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Map of the rooute Laurie would have been walking home
Laurie (bottom right) pictured with her 5 younger siblings. My Mom is the blonde in the center.
An example of a general seating Beach Boys concert ticket from 1974 - Click on the ticket to see the site I got the copy of the ticket from

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  1. kim

    I had a run in with Ted Bundy in the year 72-73 on 29th in Spokane. In 73, I was a Ferris high student. I look to place my story back with the police, for all of the women still missing. If he missed getting a hold of me, who was next on that evening? Ted Bundy was in and out of Spokane during those years.He rented a room at the Davenport Hotel in 73. Are his credit card receipts proof enough he was in Utah when your aunt went missing?

    1. Yes, between the credit card receipts and the fact that the timeline would not have allowed him to be in Spokane on that day. The police and the FBI ruled him out. My mom also wanted to be sure and spent a great deal of time researching Bundy, she wanted feel comfortable herself saying he was ruled out.

    2. Anne

      I am seeing this comment a couple years after you posted it. I also had a run in with Bundy in Spokane a couple of years before you say that you did. At the time I knew nothing about him; but years later when he hit the news, I knew it was him. I also remember when beautiful Laurie went missing. Much hope and many prayers for her loved ones. Anne

  2. jeannine

    This is heartbreaking. Praying your family gets answers!

  3. Tina

    This is so heartbreaking, I hope your family can get some closure one day. What really makes me upset too is that the police didn’t want to take the time to check every ticket at that Beach Boys concert! I hope something can be found. Your aunt was a beautiful person.

  4. Kelsey S.

    I wonder if Bundy could still be the one… even if he was apparently in another state.. you never know… prayers to you and your family! So tragic.

  5. Joy Fletcher

    This made me cry, I am so so so sorry this happened to you all. And how awful people are that can just say “put it behind you” or even people that say things hinting that she ran away – that just stabs you allover again I am sure. Never give up hope, sometimes cold cases are solved decades later. Sending you all love and light <3

    1. Thank you for reading and caring about Laurie. Our prayer is this will be one of those cold cases. <3

  6. Brittni

    Prayers for you and your family. Thanks for clarifying that her purse was NOT found, insane how misinformation can spread around, especially online. I hope justice is served one day.

    1. Thank you for reading and your prayers! Yes it is crazy, the misinformation has caused alot of confusion for people.

  7. Tanya

    You always see missing people on tv but when it hits home, I can’t imagine what that pain is like. Prayers for you and your family – please never give up hope.

  8. Sarah

    So scary that in a blink of an eye, someone can vanish like that. Mommas keep your kids close! Always be vigilant, especially in today’s times.

    Cameo, I am so sorry this happened to your family. There is such evil in this world and I struggle with trying to understand why it has to exist. Please keep us updated on your family’s progress in trying to find who kidnapped Laurie.

  9. Allison Hartford

    Have a lot of cold cases been solved with the playing cards they use in prison?

    1. This is a great question… Through research I found as of 2016, the cards have resulted in approx 600 tips, many have proved useless, but the program is indeed considered a success as the cards have resulted in 9 cold cases being solved! (I updated my post)

  10. Sosa

    This is so sad! I can’t stop crying!! I am so sorry for your family.

  11. Rachel

    I live in Spokane, I have never heard her story. Incredibly sad.

  12. Marc

    Such a sad story. I pray for your family they find Laurie’s remains and who did this to her.

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